Safety Tips
Your safety is our top priority. Here are essential tips to help you stay safe while using Lavrilo and meeting new people online.
Profile Safety
Create a Safe Profile
- Use recent, clear photos of yourself
- Avoid sharing personal information like your full name, address, or workplace
- Don't include photos with identifying information (license plates, house numbers, etc.)
- Be honest but don't overshare personal details
Never Share
- Your home or work address
- Financial information
- Social security number or ID numbers
- Passwords or login credentials
- Intimate photos or videos
Communication Safety
Getting to Know Someone
- Take time to get to know someone before meeting in person
- Ask questions and look for inconsistencies in their stories
- Video chat before meeting to verify their identity
- Trust your instincts - if something feels off, it probably is
Red Flags to Watch For
- Asking for money, gifts, or financial assistance
- Professing love very quickly
- Refusing to video chat or talk on the phone
- Having very few photos or photos that look professional
- Asking for personal information too quickly
- Pressuring you to move conversations off the platform
Meeting in Person
First Date Safety
- Meet in a public place during daylight hours
- Drive yourself or use your own transportation
- Tell a friend or family member where you're going and when you'll be back
- Keep your phone charged and with you at all times
- Stay sober and alert
- Have an exit plan
Safe Meeting Locations
- Coffee shops or cafes
- Restaurants with good lighting and foot traffic
- Public parks during busy hours
- Museums or galleries
- Shopping centers or malls
Avoid These Locations
- Your home or their home
- Isolated or secluded areas
- Private clubs or venues
- Their workplace after hours
- Hotels or motels
Online Scams to Avoid
Common Dating Scams
- Romance Scams: Someone builds a relationship then asks for money
- Catfishing: Using fake photos and identity to deceive you
- Investment Scams: Offering fake investment opportunities
- Emergency Scams: Claiming to need money for an emergency
- Military Scams: Pretending to be deployed military personnel
Protecting Your Privacy
- Use Lavrilo's messaging system instead of giving out your phone number immediately
- Create a separate email address for dating if needed
- Don't connect your social media accounts until you trust someone
- Be careful about what's visible in your photos' backgrounds
- Use privacy settings to control who can see your profile
Trust Your Instincts
Your intuition is your best defense. If something doesn't feel right, trust that feeling. It's better to be cautious than sorry.
- If someone makes you uncomfortable, stop communicating
- If you feel pressured or manipulated, step back
- If someone gets angry when you set boundaries, that's a red flag
- If you feel unsafe during a date, leave immediately
Reporting and Blocking
If you encounter inappropriate behavior, harassment, or suspicious activity:
- Use the report button on profiles or messages
- Block users who make you uncomfortable
- Save screenshots of concerning conversations
- Contact our support team for serious issues
Additional Resources
- Share your location with trusted friends during dates
- Consider using safety apps that can alert contacts
- Research online dating safety from reputable sources
- Stay informed about current scam tactics
Emergency Situations
If you're in immediate danger, contact local emergency services immediately.
If you're in the US, call 911. For other countries, use your local emergency number.
Your safety is more important than being polite or not wanting to cause a scene.
Remember
Dating should be fun and exciting, not stressful or scary. By following these safety tips and trusting your instincts, you can enjoy meeting new people while staying safe.
Most people on dating platforms are genuine and looking for real connections. However, it's important to stay vigilant and protect yourself from the small percentage who might have bad intentions.
Stay safe, have fun, and happy dating!